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rainwaterspark) wrote2010-06-04 08:33 pm
rainwaterspark) wrote2010-06-04 08:33 pm
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Writer's Block: TMI
Prepare for the Writer's Block dump! This is when I regret not checking LJ every day, because some of these questions are really interesting.
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Well...
I can't say I've had any romantic experience at all (except vicariously through novels). But in my opinion, part of the fun in a truly rewarding relationship is continuously learning new things about your partner.
That being said, I think not knowing things about your partner out of a fear of being hurt is just silly. To me, a successful relationship is one that's completely honest and open. Even if it turns out your lover actually killed your brother ten years ago in a drunken fistfight, it's something you should know. Deceit and hidden secrets only fester and never do any good.
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Well...
I can't say I've had any romantic experience at all (except vicariously through novels). But in my opinion, part of the fun in a truly rewarding relationship is continuously learning new things about your partner.
That being said, I think not knowing things about your partner out of a fear of being hurt is just silly. To me, a successful relationship is one that's completely honest and open. Even if it turns out your lover actually killed your brother ten years ago in a drunken fistfight, it's something you should know. Deceit and hidden secrets only fester and never do any good.